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Keeping the Relationship Alive

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Keeping love alive in a relationship is not easy and takes a good deal of effort from both the people involved in the relationship. After several years of being together, the love factor tends to take a back seat because couples make the mistake of taking each other for granted. There are several things people can do when they feel that the love quotient in a relationship has become weak. The following ideas may be of use.

• Respect is vitally important in any relationship; from respect stems love, and an acceptance of the other person’s faults and failures. It is far better to find something to compliment than to criticise.

• Continue to date a partner so that the love doesn’t fizzle out. Finding ways to keep the relationship happening and exciting goes a long way towards keeping the love alive. Find new things to do as a couple and make a consistent effort to go that extra mile to plan dates that both persons will enjoy.

• Intimacy is an integral part of the relationship, especially considering the busy lives people lead, where life is just one huge whirlwind of activity. Make the effort to plan quiet moments of togetherness. Sit down together to watch a movie at least once a week – make it a movie night with a special dinner and give intimacy a chance to develop. Intimacy does not refer only to the bedroom; a touch on the cheek or shoulder in passing; holding hands or a quick hug while on the go, are all part of the intimacy factor in a loving relationship.

• Caring has to be demonstrated and it does not require spending big bucks to do so. Caring can be shown in numerous ways that are simple and do not cost anything. For example, bringing a partner a glass of water when the person gets home from work, giving aching feet a massage, putting off personal plans to do something the other person enjoys doing, or cooking a favourite meal forgetting personal tiredness. Caring is showing love and there a hundred different ways to show love every day.

• A relationship built on a rock steady friendship is essentially a loving relationship. When two people first become close friends, the kind that laughs and cries together, the relationship for the most part is firmly cemented. Talking is a great way to spend time together, sharing stuff and bonding better. No relationship can survive very well if there is a lack of communication. Taking personal interest in the smallest to the most complex concerns of a partner is showing love and dedication to the person’s welfare.

Filed under Relationships
March 27, 2012

Country Boys vs City Slicks

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We want a fairy tale ending right? So why do we keep going for those city jocks? Everyone knows a prince lives in the countryside; just look at Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella and Snow White. So why do we ignore those lovely lads who love everything organic?

Read these tips before you start looking for your new prince and perhaps you might make a decision for the better.

Looks
Okay, I admit it. City men are well groomed; gelled hair, designer clothes and an unlimited gym membership. But country chic is back, so bagging yourself a farmhand might be the best fashion decision you’ve ever made.

Joking aside, people who live in the countryside don’t rely on beauty products to look nice. Working on a farm, as a labourer, or even as a landscaper means that a man’s body is already buff. And it’s natural. No gym membership needed! Might mean you actually get to see him after a hard day’s work…

Sex
This isn’t necessarily about how well a man performs in the bedroom, but more the sexual passion that you could experience together. Let’s be honest, where exactly in a city is passionate, sexy or romantic? Exactly; nowhere! But imagine walking hand in hand with your boyfriend through country lanes, horse riding through the fields, or just taking a trip down a canal – what is more romantic that letting passion take over when you’re surrounded by nature?

Work
Sometimes what a man does for a living can effect how much you want to be with him. For example, say you begin dating an accountant from the city. If the shelves fall down, a window blind needs putting up, or just need him to take over the cooking, can you really rely on a man who doesn’t know how to use a drill or an oven?

This is the fantastic thing about a man who likes to get his hands dirty at work; he likes to get his hands dirty at home! Any DIY job that needs doing, a man who deals with it on a daily basis will know how you help you out.

Now to put all your new found knowledge into practice! Don’t forget that underneath all that muscle, hard exterior and those checkered shirts, there is a man wanting to find love, just like you. So give him a chance and you might find happiness!

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March 15, 2012

Spend Your Free Time Outdoors Communing With Nature

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You love to spend your free time outdoors and you have a love of nature. You want to find people to share your life with that also share your interests. That’s natural.

What is not natural is that the modern world often does not give us the time that we should have to pursue social relationships. You have responsibilities at work, you are involved in your community and the bar scene is simply not your thing. That’s okay!

You are exactly the type of person that we love to have on CountryDates.co.uk. At CountryDates.co.uk, we make it our business to connect people with others who share a love of the outdoors and adventure.

If you have never tried our online dating site because you feel it might be a little creepy, just think about all of the other opportunities that you would have missed if you did not keep up with the technology of the times. Did you use the Internet to help get your last job? You might even use the Internet to find someone to go fishing or hiking with. No doubt you have used the Internet to find organizations to join that share your love of the outdoors.

Online dating is the same thing. The people that you meet on our website are the same people that you would meet out on the trail. However, we save you the trouble of having to find which trail they are on!

Seeing a profile of someone online also saves you the trouble of that awkward first date. If you like someone, you can initiate contact by the relatively low risk communication of e-mail, which we provide with our services. If the match does not happen, you do not have to deal with the sting of rejection nor the awkwardness of an obviously failed connection.

You will also be able to hone in on exactly the type of person you want. People can be completely honest on CountryDates.co.uk, instead of putting forth their “representative” in a first date, as people are naturally inclined to do. We help you skip all the polite banter and get straight to the point: finding someone with whom you really do connect and can see a future with.

If you have not already, give our website CountryDates.co.uk a visit and set up a profile for yourself. You have nothing to lose and only your soulmate to gain.

Filed under Dating Tips, The Great Outdoors
October 15, 2011

The Simple Pleasures of Quiet Country Walks

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Not many things can compare to the simple pleasures of a quiet walk through the peaceful country. All throughout the UK there are fabulous sights and sounds to behold nestled in and around the countryside including a bevy of colourful flora and fascinating fauna. Renowned for gorgeous architecture in the form of majestic castles, cathedrals, and monuments, just about anywhere in the UK will be ideal for experiencing the rich history this part of the world is known for.

Whether you want to aimlessly stroll through a blanket of violets, hike down a hill near a meandering stream, or explore the coastal cliffs home to a variety of sea birds and waterfowl, a walk in the country offers something special for everyone.

Great Britain, especially, is a wonderful place to see a variety of diverse landscapes. Without travelling very far you will find secluded woods, verdant rolling hillsides, patchworks of meadows, tranquil waterways, dramatic cliff tops, impressive mountains, breathtaking vistas, and panoramic views.

Places such as Upper Wharfedale are full of farming lands and hay meadows to traverse dotted with many sheep while Sussex offers fantastic views including pairs of towering windmills. For coastal walks, head over to Cornwall and espy trees and wild flowers while tiptoeing along the jagged cliffs. For an absolute serene walk, the remoteness and stillness of the Scottish Highlands makes for a perfect day of solitude and quiet contemplation.

Depending on the time of year, the beautiful sights you will see while on country walks may include some of the most colourful butterflies such as the orange-tip butterfly floating across nettles and flowering plantains. You will also see an incredible rainbow of various flowers and fragrant blossoms. If you love gardening, a walk through the country can serve as a great inspiration for your own garden back at home.

Enjoy the shade from the ash, beech, birch, and oak trees and settle down with a good book. While relaxing, look for bluebells, celandines, ferns, gorse, lady’s smock, and primroses as well as countless birdlife including crossbills, nightjars, owls, redstart, and woodpeckers.

Don’t forget to take a camera to capture the picturesque scenery that awaits you on your country walks. You may even want to take a sketchpad or notebook to record some of the images you see. Of course, you will also want to ensure you are as comfortable as possible on all your walks which means wearing the proper footwear and weather appropriate clothing while taking along plenty of water.

After a walk, visit one of the many quaint country pubs for a refreshing drink and catch your breath before planning your next outdoor walking adventure.

Filed under The Great Outdoors
August 1, 2011

Types Of Dates In The Country

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If you love the country in the UK, you probably love how many things there are to do. People from the city tend to think that the country is boring or that there is just nothing going on. When you really live in the country, however, you will discover fairly quickly that there are many things to do – they are just different types of things. The beautiful rolling hills and the picturesque lakes provide a backdrop that looks like a painting or a work of art. The forests can even provide unique opportunities to see different types of animals and wildlife. The country offers many things that the city never could.

When you are dating in the country, you really need to try to take advantage of your situation. You have all of these different opportunities, so you do not want to let them go to waste. Going on traditional dinner dates is not a bad thing, but you should do what you can to make your dates more interesting, more catered to the country itself. The following are a few things that you could try.

1. Having A Picnic
Instead of eating at a restaurant, take your food with you and eat in the middle of those rolling hills. Spread a blanket out on the grass and pop the cork out of a bottle of wine. The two of you can enjoy being along together while you eat, chatting and sharing that romantic atmosphere.

2. Go Bird Watching
This is probably not ideal for a first date since you will not get to talk that much, but a date to go bird watching can be very entertaining. Watching all of the birds live in their natural environment can help both of you feel closer to nature and closer to each other. This also gives you a chance to be alone with no one else around. Make sure that you bring a guide book so that you can identify the birds that you see.

3. Go On A Walk Or A Hike
There are probably many walking trails around your home. Going for a walk together can help you to get outside and enjoy yourself. You can find some very beautiful places to explore together.

4. Visit The Beach
If you live near the shore, a trip to the beach can be an ideal date. This is especially true if you can find a private beach where there will not be families or tourists. You can incorporate this with the picnic date idea, having a romantic meal on the beach at sunset. If you do not want to eat, just drink some wine as you watch the sun go down.

Filed under The Great Outdoors
July 14, 2011

How to Write That First message on an Online Dating Site

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contacting someone on a dating siteOnline dating is one of the most popular ways to meet prospective partners, but it can be difficult for some people to take that first step. When writing an initial message to a another member on an online dating site there are some important things to consider if you want to make a positive first impression. Here are some important pieces of advice when making that first approach to another member.

1. Be literate. Forget the “text-speak” and write full sentences with full words. Bad grammar and bad spelling are usually turn-offs and give a negative first impression. You only have one chance to make a first impression; make it a good one by sounding literate and reasonably intelligent.

2. Mention specific interests. Writing about interests that you have in common with the recipient of your message is a great way to get someone’s attention. Mentioning interests that someone has on their profile will give the impression that you are interested in them and that you took the time to fully read their profile. Common interests will serve as an initial bond and generate some conversation.

3. Avoid physical compliments. It is often good to give out compliments, but they should be more about personality and interests, and less about physical qualities. Your initial messages should avoid phrases such as the following:

* You look so hot
* Your picture looks so sexy
* You’ve got a smoking hot body

Men will probably not mind receiving these compliments, but women will usually see them as a sign that a man is only interested in physical attributes. That is generally a turn-off for woman in an initial conversation or message. You may think someone’s picture looks sexy, but keep that thought to yourself until your second date!

4. Guys should be self-effacing. Leave the braggadocio behind and let her see your humble and sensitive side. Women would probably do well to heed this advise, also.

5. Ask a few open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. Open-ended questions will help to generate more conversation and discussion; this allows you to more quickly determine compatibility.

Online dating is safer, easier, and perhaps more rewarding than the traditional ways to meet people. By perusing profiles, it is easy to locate others who share your interests. Contact can be made in the safety and comfort of your home and is usually more productive than traditional first dates. However, since you only get one opportunity at a first impression, make it a good one by writing a message that is friendly, truthful, and concise.

Filed under Dating Tips
February 26, 2011

Love Horse® Featured Profile – Lara

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Who is she?

Lara is in her early thirties and lives in West Sussex.

What’s she like?

Lara has travelled widely and has tried living in London but can’t shake off her love of horses. She events, hunts, and occasionally shows. She adores her horses but finds time to do other things as well. She also likes to catch up with her friends & family, going for long walks, the cinema, eating out, riding her bike, or just relaxing on the sofa in from of the television.

What is she looking for?

Lara is an independant lady with plenty of self-reliance, but she would like to meet a man with whom to share her life – someone who enjoys the country life as much as she does.

Where can I find her?

If you would like to know more about Lara then register here or login to Love Horse® here.

Lara is waiting for a man with whom he can share her love of country events and of course, horses.

Filed under Horse Riding
January 30, 2011

Connecting Through Outdoor Dates

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The great outdoors is one of the best places for a date or romantic getaway. Life is simpler outside, away from the hustle and bustle of the city and urban living, and a nature experience can help you and your partner to feel more alive. These experiences make wonderful dates because they can create positive associations in your minds, as well as help you to get to know one another on a new level. If you’re looking for a great date idea that will help you to share a passion, connect on a new level, and learn more about one another, consider an outdoors date.

A date in nature can help you and your partner to bond over a shared passion for outdoor living and simplicity. Many people enjoy the freeing aspects of being outside of the city and this is a great time to connect with a romantic interest. By finding a common ground of appreciation, you can bond to one another in a new way. This will help to strengthen your relationship and also gives you new places to go in the future.

You’ll also find that you are able to connect on a new level when you’re outside. Though you may feel distracted by the sensory experiences going on in a coffee shop or at a restaurant, nature provides a simple and beautiful backdrop for deep conversation and laughter. Connecting outside is an easy way to transition into more meaningful conversation and a profound connection that is difficult to foster in the city.

Finally, you can learn a great deal about someone when you experience an outdoor activity with him or her. Whether you and your partner choose to go hiking, sailing, horseback riding, or even on a simple picnic, you’ll learn new bits about the other person that would not arise if you were to go to the theatre. Planning activities in nature is a great way to learn about the other person’s interests and values.

If you’re looking for an alternative date that will help you and your partner to share a great passion with one another, connect in a new way, and to get to know each other better, an outdoors date is one of the best options. You can share an important and liberating experience together that will strengthen your relationship and provide a fantastic memory for the two of you to share.

Filed under The Great Outdoors
December 12, 2010

Horseback Riding With The One You Love

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Horseback riding can be one of the most romantic dates that you will ever go on. There is something about riding a horse that is so much better than driving in a car or even riding on a motorcycle. You truly are able to get out and see the world in its natural state; you will feel like you are a part of that world in a way that it is impossible to capture in the city. This is why dates in the country can be so unique and powerful, and can really draw you and your lover into a closer, stronger relationship.

Riding horses is a good way to see so much more of the countryside than you ever could by walking. Going for a walk can be romantic, but you are generally confined to an area that is close to your home. On a horse, you can really get out and explore. You can find beautiful lakes that you have never seen before, and watch them sparkle in the sun. You can find rolling hills looking down over lush forests, and sit on the horse on the top of those hills to that have best view of the countryside that you have ever experienced; this is especially true in the fall, when the leaves have all changed and made the country into a stunning tapestry of color.

For those who do not usually ride horses, this will also give you and your lover a date that you can be excited about because it is unique and different. Going to movies or going out to eat can be fun, but these things happen so often that they lose a lot of that exciting edge that makes dates memorable. Going out on horses is a good way to capture this excitement, which can lead to your feeling closer to each other than you have in a long time. If you have been together for quite some time, this is a good way to rekindle the energy and excitement that you had when you were young and everything was fresh and new.

All in all, there are few dates that can be as interesting and romantic as riding horses. You will get to see the countryside and all of the natural beautify that it has to offer; you will also get to spend quality time with the person that you love the most.

Filed under Horse Riding
December 6, 2010

Hiking With A Partner

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If you want to go on a date that will bring you out into the wilderness, you should try taking your lover on a trip hiking to a beautiful destination. This can give you something to do that is fun and exciting for both of you, as well as being romantic. Hiking is great exercise, and you will both enjoy being able to walk through the forest or along the coast together, seeing the nature that goes all too often ignored in today’s world. Having a destination in mind will also give you a sense of purpose, that you are striving together to get somewhere, which can in turn bring you closer together, since you will have this connection. You will be working together to accomplish something, and this team mentality will spread to the rest of your relationship so that you always feel like you are helping and leaning on one another.

The destination could be nearly anything, but you should go to it with the point of spending a large portion of the date there; this gives your date more purpose, and can drive you along and make you feel that you have truly accomplished something together. A beach could be a good destination, especially at a remote lake where there will not be other people. You could bring a picnic lunch and things to swim in, and spend the day relaxing on the beach before you hike back. This will also make sure that neither one of you feel that the date is too strenuous with constant walking, taking away from the fun and enjoyment. The break will give you a chance to enjoy being together and recharge for the return trip.

Regardless of the destination, the hike itself can be very fun. You will enjoy getting to see all of the nature that is present in the forest — or wherever your hike takes you, as long as it is away from the city. Many of the animals and plants are very beautiful, and will be fun to see in their natural habitat. It can also be very nice and relaxing to walk along, holding hands with the one you love, just enjoying each other’s company. You will be able to devote all of your attention to each other, and to get to know each other better as you chat for the duration of the journey.

Filed under Hiking
December 6, 2010

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